Do you ever wonder if you’re too picky when you date?

If you tend to focus on what’s wrong when you meet new people, then you’re probably too picky. It’s a common habit of self-preservation, but what if I told you that focusing on flaws might prevent you from succeeding in finding love?

In the video below, I share a personal story that made me realize the power of changing my mindset while dating.

It all started with a surprisingly small shift on a Sunday morning that made me realize that I was unknowingly ruining my chances of finding a partner.



I realized I was wearing what I called “dating goggles.”

“Dating goggles” are negative lenses that we wear when we meet new people, focusing on imperfections rather than seeing true beauty and potential.

Once I learned how to take off my dating goggles, I was able to truly appreciate and connect with the person in front of me, which made dating much more fun and successful.

In this conversation, my colleague and I explored the importance of taking a step back from judgment and embracing curiosity, and why doing so will help you find love.

We talk about why being too picky when it comes to dating is not for you at all.


You’ll learn how to embrace positivity and curiosity instead of focusing on flaws that can transform your dating experience and chances of meeting your partner.

We also discussed the importance of dating consistency so that you can meet a reliable, respectful partner who shows genuine interest and genuinely cares about you.

When you find someone to give love effortlessly and doesn’t make you feel like you’ve been pursuing it, you know you’re on the right path.